拉拉扯扯　

◎ 拉拉扯扯 lālā-chěchě

[digress in speaking; traffic in flattery and favours; pull and drag this way or that] 指牵挽亲昵的样子。也形容勾勾搭搭,关系暖昧,不正当

一个小爷见了面,也拉拉扯扯的,什么意思!——《红楼梦》